Sunday, March 15, 2009

Top 5 Things NOT to say...

So after a long long LONG day of dealing with two very fussy babies and spending time with my boyfriend I decided I wanted to try finding a site that's for moms of twins... can i find one? NOPE YOU BET I CANT! what the heck?! nooo instead I find a bunch of stores HA! and on one I found something rather amusing... and its something I can ACTUALLY relate to because I have been asked these things or heard them many times since I had my babies... lol...
so here it goes...
Five things NOT to say to a mom of twins:
5. Which ones your favorite?
(you cant pick a favorite!!! what are people thinking when they ask this?! kids arent like shoes! yes... I'm a shoe fanatic! lol)
4. I guess you're done now?
(why do people assume that just because someone has twins that they are done!?! last I checked there's not a limit on how many kids 1 person can have...)
3. Better you than me!
(psh... you dont know what you're missing out on! Twins entertain each other... 1 baby needs mommy's CONSTANT attention... not saying its a bad thing... but when I need to get something done I dont want to feel like I'm leaving my child to play alone... So I'm very thankful that I have twins for many reasons... this is just a MAJOR bonus!!!!)
2. Are they "natural"?
( WHOAH!!! CAN YOU SAY PERSONAL!!!! This is one I havent been asked but I'm sure IF and WHEN I ever do get asked... I'd probably just die from laughter and tell them its none of their business lol...gees people...)
and the #1 thing not to say to a mom of twins...
1.DOUBLE TROUBLE!!!!
(oooh trust me... they are trouble... but its trouble that I would NEVER trade... its what I have learned to call Fabulous Chaos :)... yes thats right... its fabulous!)

ooh... and in case you didnt know... the stuff in the () is what I have to say about the things not to say lol...

here's the link to the site...
http://www.cafepress.com/twincerely/749902
if you have multiples... some of the stuff on there's a riot! and I'm definitely going to be ordering from there... especially the...

"Yes, We're twins.
No we're not identical
(oh-and I'm the good one!)"
shirts...

I GET ASKED IF MY BABIES ARE TWINS ALL THE TIME! AND I GET ASKED IF THEY'RE IDENTICAL ALL THE TIME!!!
yes! they look A LOT A LIKE! THAT DOESNT MAKE THEM IDENTICAL... IF YOU WANNA SEE IF THEY'RE IDENTICAL THEN YOU CHANGE THEIR DIAPERS AND THEN TELL ME IF THEY'RE IDENTICAL! :P
haha
ok...
I'm done ranting now...
-
Felicia...